‘Hey Eddie I’ve been seeing this girl and we’ve slept together a few time, last night in bed she asked me, ‘How may girls have you slept with’?
Guys, NEVER, under any circumstance, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with past lovers to a current one.
One of the most amateur moves a man can make is to openly describe past sexual experiences or give a number (accurate or not) to how many women he’s been with to the girl he’s with. Disclosing such information, whether you offered the information or she dragged it out of you, always comes off as arrogant and is often the catalyst for emotional resentment, if not outright emotional blackmail from an insecure woman.
If a woman puts you on the spot by directly asking you for this information just dodge it. Cocky and funny humour works wonders in this situation and still keeps the air of mystery and challenge about you.
For example she might ask you:
Her: ‘So how many girls have you been with’?
You: ‘I was a virgin boy till i met you actually’
Her: ‘Really, how many girls have you been with’?
You:‘ You mean tonight’?
Her: ‘C’mon, how many girls have you been with’?
You: ‘You know, I really lost count after 300’ (or something outrageous)
Her: ‘How many girls have you been with’?
You: ‘I have an idea, lets fuck and then you can tell me how many girls you think I’ve been with, OK’?
Her: ‘Don’t you want to know how many guys I’ve been with’?
When a woman asks you this question she is seeking confirmation of what she already suspects ‘ NEVER give her this satisfaction. When a woman resorts to blatantly asking you she?s generally exhausted her patience to be discrete and this is a desperation tactic for an insecure woman.
While this scenario may be fraught with potential disaster, it is also an opportunity to encourage her imagination and prompt some healthy competition anxiety.
If you’re sexually inexperienced
A lot of game newbies think that since they’ve only been with 1 or 2 women in their lives what’s the harm in open, honest, full disclosure? Like most beta males without game they bought the ‘open communication is the secret to a good relationship’ message long ago, so the impulse to be upfront is their default response. They tend not to see the use in keeping that information, or being ambiguous about it, helps to plant a seed of healthy competition anxiety. Her feeling a little bit of jealousy isn’t so bad. When she KNOWS she’s your first, you’ve just handed over the frame in your relationship over to her.
If you’ve already got quite a few notches
For example if she’s your 20th sexual partner then every girl up to 19 becomes a stamp in her collection to use against you in the first fight that you two will have. Every date you take her on she wonders ‘Did he take #12 here too’? It’s as if you cheated on her with every previous girl before her. I should also add that this is the first question a BPD (borderline personality disorder) woman will ask you so she can feel horrible about herself for not measuring up to ‘your standards’ and drag you into the emotional hell-pit with her.
So guys just dodge that damn question, no matter how many times she asks.
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